To understand why men lie we have to understand what a lie is. A lie is protection. We lie to protect and hide things from the world. What is the number one thing men need to protect in todays society? Their ego. Their pride. Their sense of being a "man". So when something hurts they say it doesnt. When they dont know the answer they say they do.
One thing i've come to understand about most men. They want too, will, or already have cheated on their significant others. Most men absolutely can not understand what a real relationship is, what it means, and what its worth. They only understand the simple things in life, like the fact that sex feels good. And any man will tell you. Eating the same cereal for a couple of years gets old, so one day you try a new brand. Its how they think. Mainly because they objectify women and bring them to that level. Of cereal. Not all men are like this mind you, but the majority of them are. Even the nice ones who probably dont even realize it somehow drag their other half down to a level to be ranked. To be better or worse then others. They bring them to a place where new is more exciting and physical beauty is more important. Most men dump all their passion into cars, jobs, or themselves. Instead of where it belongs. In their partners. So all that is one side to the many sided reason why men lie. No excueses, no lame stories, no beating around the bush. Men, and people in general, lie because they do things that they need to hide. If there is nothing to hide. There is no lie.
It is my experience that you do not lie to those you love. A lie is a terrible thing. And should never be used against the ones we love. So far, i am the only person on earth who thinks this and puts it in practice. People think "white" lies are good, nice, or ok. But who wants to hear a lie? Not me. So do not be fooled with reasons and excueses. And ask yourself. Why is this man lying to me? I think we are all deserve and are worth the truth. If the men around you dont feel the same way. Just ask yourself why not?
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Because they are cowardly and do not respect women.
I always wanted to hear the truth because even if it hurts a little, the pain of dealing with the truth is 100 times better then the pain I feel when I find out he's lying. Men hate feeling uncomfortable, but lying just causes discomfort all around in the long run. Don't guys have a sense of guilt? Or does sex override that?
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